Y'know,
yov, I had typed up almost that exact same sentiment (about Hal needing to join in on decisons, rather than simply criticize) and then not sent it, because I continually feel like I am sort of "always available" to give Hal suggestions.
But when I read what you wrote, I just sat here nodding. I SO agree.
Hal, buddy, here I am again, giving you suggestions.
Please take them with the real affection and empathy that I feel while writing this.
You need to get involved in the decision making process.
You need to take all that energy, and all those ideas, and stir them in with the mix of other's ideas and energy, and see if you can affect the way this board is runs so that you find it makes sense.
It is the ONLY way to have people really "listen" to you. I know that is what you want, but it is useless right now to simply criticize from outside the process.
That type of thing is REALLY frustrating for people who ARE trying to make a difference, by putting their hard work and time into this problem.
Just think about it, Hal. It might be a good-- and fruitful-- choice for you.