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halplm
Post subject: I'm tired of it
Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 5:57 pm
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I don't know what anyone can do, but people who mostly hang out on HOF, where my name has been smeared beyond even what I thought they would do, continue to harass me about it.

Yes, I use the word harass, which is the reason I was taken to a hearing hear oh so long ago.

If I can't post without it being assumed that I'm trying to cause drama, or stir up trouble, then I can't post at all. I can't continue to function as a member of this board, if people are going to continue to treat me this way.

What exactly, should be done about this? I don't know, but I'm open to suggestions.

bring on the "it's not all about you, hal" crap...

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yovargas
Post subject: Re: I'm fucking tired of it
Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:08 pm
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halplm wrote:
What exactly, should be done about this? [/size]
Suggested options:

- apologize for all the hurt you've caused
- take some responsibility for your actions
- work to regain the trust you've lost
- be less antagonistic and negative
- actually stop causing drama and stirring up trouble instead of merely saying that you don't


Those would be good places to start.


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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:11 pm
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In other words, take full responsability for everything that's gone wrong since TLE posted those stupid pictures on TORC? And then take everyoen's shit for it like a good little boy?

How about everyone else that was involved taking responsability? How about the fucking HOF people admit they screwed up just as much as anyone here, and rather than admit it and try to fix things, they started their own dictatorship where they could just run everything the exact way they wanted to without having to adhere to any rules themselves?

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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:16 pm
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Blaming everyone but yourself for your problems hasn't been working so far, hal. Maybe it's time to try a new tactic.


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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:17 pm
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yep, it's all in my head, everyone else I've had problems with is perfect.

Maybe my fucking problem is that I let them get away with it.

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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:19 pm
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This reminds me of a Monty Python sketch...

The record's stuck..
The record's stuck..
The record's stuck..
The record's stuck..


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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:20 pm
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You know, Holby, maybe now's not the BEST time to start talkign to me again

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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:21 pm
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I was talking at you.


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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:24 pm
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because that's better...

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yovargas
Post subject: Re: I'm fucking tired of it
Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 6:24 pm
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halplm wrote:
I'm open to suggestions.

Liar.


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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 7:06 pm
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Here's how this works.....

hal will go on a rampage.

No one has enough sense to ignore him.

hal rampage continues because obviously I'm the only one with siblings and learned that if you IGNORE them they will eventually stop. Yes, I know some of you are only children :P

hal go focus on something else because being pissed that you were banned from HoF and others can still go there isn't worth destroying this board again. You are acting like child and I can't wrap my head around any of this. But if you want people to believe you then walk away right now and get a fucking life.

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halplm
Post subject: Re: I'm fucking tired of it
Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 7:13 pm
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yovargas wrote:
halplm wrote:
I'm open to suggestions.

Liar.
No, you just did not understand what suggestions I was looking for. Those being suggestions about how we could fix this false impression people have of me, not how to fix ME, as that's a different issue entirely, and one I'm not really willing to take advice on at the moment.

TM, I did not go on a rampage, I was being attacked, and then ignored, I want this stuff discussed.

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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 7:16 pm
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TM, I did not go on a rampage, I was being attacked, and then ignored, I want this stuff discussed.
Then why have you started three threads in ten minutes There's a way to go about things and a way not to. You constantly go about things the wrong way.

What's false about their impressions? You keep proving that their impressions are right!! Now, I know they are wrong because I know you and you are stubborn but you aren't malicious.

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yovargas
Post subject: Re: I'm fucking tired of it
Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 7:18 pm
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halplm wrote:
No, you just did not understand what suggestions I was looking for. Those being suggestions about how we could fix this false impression people have of me...
That is exactly what I was trying to give you. It was my very final attempt. I'm done now.


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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 7:20 pm
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I started three threads, because there were three different topics.

1. the constant harassment I face from people who have formed a certain opinion of me, and what might be done to address that. (here)
2. The specific and often repeated claim that I am an instigator, and just out to cause trouble. This, despite the move to the bikeracks, was in fact NOT starting trouble, but asking people to stop attributing that to me. But people continue to assume the worst of my motivations.
3. The cross-posting thread, which has always bugged me, and will continue to bug me whenever it causes issues like the one in Eru's thread.

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Posted: Tue 18 Sep , 2007 8:17 pm
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TM is right. :P


yov is right in a different way, hal (yes, I know I'm now ignoring TM's advice)...I know you think there are people who will never change their opinion of you no matter what you do, and you're probably right about that. But there are other people who possibly could, and if you took some of yov's suggestions and took an objective look at some of this drama, maybe in the future when you felt harrassed, more people would be inclined to see what you were talking about rather than simply discounting your opinion because of stuff like this...

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