I remember when I asked my father in law for my wife's hand in marriage, the first thing that came out of his mouth was "Are you sure you want to marry my daughter, she doesn't know how to cook?"
I don't know if he was trying to scare me or it's just a nice way of saying "no." The only food my wife knows how to cook is spaghetti, she makes the best one. My friends often ask her to bring her spaghetti to potluck parties. Now, she learned how to bake.
I'm the designate cook at home since like Ber said if you have French-Spanish blood in you, your family expects you to learn. Plus the fact, I was a picky eater when I was a kid, my mom would annoyingly say "You don't like what I cook, learn to cook" which I did. My grandma is Spanish so she taught me how to cook all kinds of Spanish food and an Uncle thought me how to cook french food. Then I learned how to cook Chinese by dropping by and staying at a friend's house for dinner and watching his mom cook, my chinese gf back then taught me how to pick ingredients at the Asian store. I enrolled in Thai cooking lessons a few years ago and now, I'm learning to cook east indian food which really sticks my place because of the spices. My wife and I often have a few bottles of Fabreeze to freshen the air and esp. our clothes. That's the only problem cooking Asian food in a small apartment in the winter, it stinks up the place. I have a lot of cook books at home and I often use it so the pages have smudges on it. In fact, I have Jamie Oliver's book which was a gift from my mom who watches his show often.
CG said that a man who learns how to cook is beneficial in the marriage market.
In fact, my wife's friend often tells her she's lucky I do all the cooking but I often tell them I'm luckier to have a wife who washes the dishes for me cause I hate doing it. My wife doesn't like leaving dishes on the sink and doesn't trust the dishwasher to the job for her.
Anyways, my best friend has been bugging me for years to open a restuarant and I could be the chef. I keep turning him down saying "Cooking is just a hobby for me, once it becomes a full time job it's not fun anymore." Plus the fact, I can't stay up late at night nowadays because of a medical condition (in the blood), so I need to rest a lot, cooking esp. in a restuarant takes a lot of work, not just cooking, planning the meal, budgeting and stuff.
I can't blame people for not learning to cook since like a lot of people said takes a lot of time and energy just to plan a meal, when you can buy a cheaper version at the restuarant, no sweat.