Take care of yourself, Ber!
Well, I just got through this thread and it took exactly 1.5 hours,
which is a significant chunk of my available online time today.
I must say that I regularly pass on information about B77 to nonmembers who are TORCers. They all happen to be in my immediate family, but the principle is the same, in a tangental sort of way. WhenEVER I say something on B77 that I think my husband might possibly be offended by, I show him the whole thread- even though I know he has no way of seeing it without my help.
I just feel bad until I show him and give him a response opportunity. I never say things about people that I would not say to their face, and I recommend others do the same!
I can totally sympathize with Wilco wanting to show
[non-member screen name deleted] what was said about her- as long as it wasn't something from the Invite forum.
AND, in fact, I just explained the situation going on right now to my Mom on IM, who desperately wants to be on this site someday,
(can we get back to inviting people!) and copy-pasted this whole reply of mine to her. (She had asked me how the new board was going, and I told her! )
And if that is an actionable offense, SO BE IT!
Jury me, too!
Ranger edit, 08 Nov 05