Please note that was a question, not a statement, Voronwe. It's one that may be answered yes or no, and HAS been. Certainly some people believe so, but others clearly do not, while others (myself included) believe it only with reservations...involving the number of people.
Obviously, if EVERYONE in ToE was uncomfortable with someone being there, the course of action would be as clear as if NO ONE was uncomfortable...so the tipping point must be somewhere in between 0% and 100%. Thus the poll--to see where people's personal tipping point is for each of the two major options for collecting objections, whether explained or merely selected in a poll.
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