Posted on the "business" thread, as well.
I have something to add, but it's a bit difficult to express. I'm going to put on my grandmother costume for a few minutes. Bear with me.....reading glasses, grey hair in a bun, elastic stockings, comfort bra, elephant gonchies.....yup.....I think I'm suitably attired. Now, I shall pull this rocking chair up and lean forward and say:
Everyone who comes here, so far, knows everyone else, to a greater or lesser extent. Many of you have met in person, and many more will meet in person one day.
This is wonderful, and I hope I am one of those who meets Lidless and Jnyusa and Prim and Berhael, and everyone else. Sorry to miss so many names, but I don't want this post to be a thousand paragraphs long.
There are things I don't want to know about my friends. I don't really want to know what position they favour during sex, or how often they achieve orgasm, or what their ex-wife did that they hated.
NOW I KNOW I don't need to read the threads, as a matter of fact, from an initial indication of "C" I have gone back to "A" on the matter of the sex only forum.
I am just offering a bit of advice. Remember, once the words have been posted and read, they cannot be called back. They can be edited away, but maybe not as quick as you might like, on sober second thought.
It is fun to talk about sex. There is nothing shameful about good sex between loving partners. FAR, FAR FROM IT. It is fun to joke, to share funny stories, it is fun and rather exciting. But it is painfully easy to get caught up in it all and share something you might regret. The partner you are with now might not be your partner a year from now. You might wish with all your heart that you had kept some things private.
No one here is going to be judgemental, that seems obvious.
But there is such a thing as too much information. The younger ones amongst us, those in their late teens and early twenties, might find that their fingers are quicker than their brains. God knows it happens!
Okay. Granny costume off. I'm outa here.
No offense meant, and I hope no offense taken.
And, the suggestion for the name "Thinking of England" is absolutely brilliant.