Turning back to the original topic ( ), this discussion really mirrors the discussion that we had in the convention about Members Rights and Responsibilities. I think it would be helpful to quote what I said in beginning that discussion:
Now, in looking at the Members Rights and Responsibilities that we ended up with with the benefit of some hindsight, I have to say that I believe that we succeeded in balancing these two interests extremely well.
I wrote: We come to it at last. The great discussion of our board. I firmly believe that this discussion will form the basis for what board77 becomes. Our Mission Statement, Purpose and Goals will reflect, to a great degree, the rights and responsibilities of our members.
As I see it there are, broadly speaking, two competing interests that need to be balanced in order for us to succeed in creating the kind of community that I think most of us want to have. The first, which I believe many feel is paramount, is the freedom to be ourselves, without fear of censorship or censure. I completely support the value of that interest. But balanced against that value must be a willingness to be sensitive to the views and sensibilities of others. I know for a fact that there are some very worthy people who have stayed away from board77 precisely because of the lack of the "self-censorship that is so essential for any civilized body" as one good friend of mine who no longer posts here so aptly put it.
I would like to see there be some kind of statement in the article on Member's Rights and Responsibilities that encourages members to consider how other people will react to the things that they post. Not to compromise our values or our selves, not to fail to be ourselves, but just to think first about how the other person(s) will react. SO MANY of the disputes and hard feelings that arise can be avoided by this simple action.
Freedom of expression continues to be of paramount importance, as it should in a community who's sole purpose is for people to exchange ideas. However, that freedom of expression is clearly limited in cases where a member threatens to disrupt the community. These limitations are enforceable by the Rangers in order to ensure the the stability of the community is not threatened.
But equally important, to my mind, are the unenforceable rights and responsibilities. There are some values that IMHO simply can not be legislated, but or no less important for that. Courtesy and respect come about because people want to be courteous and respectful, and want others to be as well, not because people are forced to be courteous and respectful. And on the whole, I find that the members of board77 do want to be courteous and respectful, even when they disagree with each other.
And that is an encouraging thought.