Maria, I was telling myself that last night as well.
I'm getting there with believing it.
I think the first time I thought I was fat was when I was about 10 and decided my belly was too podgy. I remember being 16 and so nervous wearing a bikini because I felt fat. I was a (UK) size 8 for goodness sakes! Now I look back at pictures of myself them and realise I actually looked good (although without the confidence that would have set my figure off!)
I've always thought my knees were too knobbly and so I hide my legs under long skirts. My legs themselves aren't too bad - no more cellulite than is common to most women and they're a reasonable shape and in proportion with the rest of me - but those knees are hideous.
:P
And of course I've always hated my breasts. They're too small, always have been and always will be (unless/until I get pregant I guess!).
This summer I'm going to be on a beach holiday for the first time since I was 21 and I am determined to enjoy it without feeling self-conscious! So that'll mean a padded bikini top, possession of a sarong and six months of sit-ups!
:roll:
Iavas, it was my ex who made those comments to me. And my father too had done the 'you've put on weight round your middle' line, when I was about 20. Sadly, it's all too easy to believe negatives.
And of course women do and should round out between the ages of 18 and 21! I guess that's a little hard to comes to terms with for the ex who had pulled a skinny 18 year old and ended up with a 22 year old wife, two trouser-sizes bigger and with an attitude to match.
Would you believe it if I said that you (and Matrim) were the first people I can ever recall telling me I was attractive (at least, I think it was you, and I'm going to look bloody silly if I've got that wrong!). So that was all of two and a half years ago.
Thankfully I'm now with a good man who tells me I'm beautiful far more times than he ought to, and I am increased in self confidence in leaps and bounds. :mrgreen:
Somedays I think we ought to just book a B77 nudist holiday and spend a week getting over these stupid issues!