I don't see the point of prosecuting this woman, to be honest. It would take a lot of time and money, to what end?
She is obviously a sociopathic personality. She will be more circumspect in future, I daresay. But imagine what it must be like to be her kid?
As for Megan's poor mother, she would feel guilt no matter what. It goes with the territory. The best thing that can happen is that maybe someone, somewhere, learns from this.
I confess that I am puzzled as to the actual purpose of kids "hanging out" online. If the kid lives out in the bush and never sees any real people I guess I could understand it, but these kids see each other all day at school, etc. I think the dangers of the "peer culture" are exacerbated by this, and god knows the peer culture is too strong already. Kids should NOT take their values and ideas from other kids. The more frantic they are to do so, the more dangerous it is.
vison -
I agree with you, as I do with Freddy and Lali. Middle school aged kids (those from roughly aged 11 to 14) are at their MOST vulnerable ages, their minds are not mature, their bodies are changing rapidly, their emotions are unhinged even in the BEST of situations, and that whole need to belong and fit in is so pervasive. Parents need to be MOST vigilant at this stage, and I daresay being a parent is much more important than being a friend. As for adults involving themselves in their kid's social life, there is a line there as well. Stick up for your kid and confront blatant abuses being perpetrated, but also remember that it very rarely is an entirely one sided deal, and that the kids take it far more seriously than the matter itself would otherwise be taken. Thank goodness my two sons never had issues with the computer. Melanie DID, and for years, we simply did not have one at home, and when I did get one again, it was password protected and I only let her use it for homework. (Well, those of you who know my background will certainly understand WHY, and that is all I will offer on that subject.)
The internet itself is not the issue here, it is how it CAN be exploited. Kids simply do not understand that things are NOT always what they appear to be, and it is the jobs of parents to guide them on that type of dilemma. I guess in my opinion, kids should only be allowed to have social networking involvement with kids that you the parent KNOW yourself, and that is it. Kids should certainly not be allowed to be on such sites if they have had any issues or emotional problems that leave them vulnerable. And, when I caught Melanie being abusive and nasty on the computer, it was taken away from her. I never covered up for my kids when they had done seriously wrong things, in fact, I made them deal with it themselves along with me. That is also part of growing up, and in my mind, one that far too many parents never force their kids to do.