See, I think a gun is just a gun. It's a tool like many other tools, albeit with an inbuilt danger factor one doesn't find in a hammer or in a Skilsaw.
Power cutting tools scare me more than firearms!
I've known quite a few people injured with such tools, and I've never known someone who has been shot. Not personally, anyway.
(Louis Lamour wrote about instances where women traveled alone across the west and could do so without fear because of the respect that men gave to women in that time period.)
That wasn't a phenomenon of firearms, that was a cultural shift due to the extreme scarcity of women. Such politeness would have been inevitable even if the weapons available were flint tipped spears!
Personally I like how Maria said she would have dealt with the situation.
In all fairness, my solution would probably get me hurt or sued.
Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote about what it was really like settling the West, and her Pa never shot no one, not once.
How does one decipher a triple negative?
I've read that Laura Ingalls Wilder actually gave up on her books and gave them to her daughter to edit, rewrite, and get cleaned up for publishing. Since they were marketing to children, it's quite possible that any truely unsavory events were edited out. Or, even, that her father didn't tell his daughters about the very scary stuff.
What you read in the Wilder books isn't necessarily the bare, ungarnished Truth. They were trying to produce a publishable work, and succeeded brilliantly. And Louis L'Amour's work should not be dismissed as mere romantic fiction, either. He was famous for the quality of historical research he put into his tales. Many of his stories were based on newspaper articles and personal letters and flavored with his own extensive knowledge of people and how they tick. I think we can take much of what he wrote as more or less correct in essence, if not in exact details.